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founder of The Blueprint Shift™ and certified in Integrated Attachment Theory.

I'm Renee Camello-Marfia, MPA

Every transformation I guide women through is built on The Blueprint Shift™ Method. 
The framework behind my work is built on five core pillars:

The Blueprint Shift™ Method:
This work centers on helping women understand and heal the attachment and nervous system patterns that shape how they experience love, connection, and self-trust.

Grounded, trauma-informed, and attachment-based.

The focus is clarity, confidence, and an emotionally secure connection.

  • Core Wounds: Identify fears of abandonment, rejection, and unworthiness.
  • Regulate: Create nervous system safety and emotional grounding.
  • Reprogram: Shift subconscious beliefs and insecure patterns into secure ones.
  • Embodiment: Practice secure behaviors and soften into feminine embodiment.
  • Sustain: Anchor lasting change with boundaries, alignment, and steady connection.
Working with me: 

Read My full Story

founder of The Blueprint Shift™ and certified in Integrated Attachment Theory.

I'm Renee Camello-Marfia, MPA


Every transformation I guide women through is built on The Blueprint Shift™ Method. 
The framework behind my work is built on five core pillars:

This work centers on helping women understand and heal the attachment and nervous system patterns that shape how they experience love, connection, and self-trust.

Grounded, trauma-informed, and attachment-based

The focus is clarity, confidence, and an emotionally secure connection.
The Blueprint Shift™ Method:



  • Core Wounds: Identify fears of abandonment, rejection, and unworthiness.
  • Regulate: Create nervous system safety and emotional grounding.
  • Reprogram: Shift subconscious beliefs and insecure patterns into secure ones.
  • Embodiment: Practice secure behaviors and soften into feminine embodiment.
  • Sustain: Anchor lasting change with boundaries, alignment, and steady connection.

Audiences learn:

Book Renée to Speak
  • The Silent Exit™: How to Leave Toxic Cycles Without Losing Yourself
  • Rewiring Self-Worth: From Fear of Rejection to Emotional Maturity
  • The Avoidant Epidemic: Understanding Emotional Unavailability in Modern Relationships. An exploration of how attachment patterns, nervous system conditioning, and cultural dynamics contribute to widespread emotional avoidance, delayed commitment, and relational instability — and how individuals and communities can respond with clarity and self-trust.

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Other Topics Renée Speaks On

Signature Talk

From Survival Mode to Secure Love: Healing Attachment at the Core 
  • Why old patterns in love repeat — and how to finally break them
  • The science of attachment and the nervous system made simple
  • Practical steps to regulate, rewire, and experience secure connection

speaking + workshops

Renée’s speaking style is direct, compassionate, and grounded in both lived experience and professional expertise. She weaves her personal journey with evidence-based tools to help audiences understand attachment, emotional regulation, and the path from survival mode to secure connection.

Renee Camello-Marfia , MPA, is a certified practitioner of integrated attachment theory and a former deputy labor commissioner for California.

For women who

Are done with “shoulds” and ready for self-trust

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Crave structure without losing softness

Want life to reflect their values—not their fear

Feel stretched between who they’ve been and who they’re becoming